I Want What You're Having

Special guest Bob Jenkins joins Therese to share his secrets to planning space in his calendar and how he was able to unplug to create more space in his life :-)

When you have had enough... and you find yourself trying to battle through your frustrations... do you put your nose to the grind stone, or take a step back? There are times where it can feel critical that you keep pressing forward, and that in order to be "responsible" you need to keep pushing through.  However, have you ever stopped to consider the impact you are having when you stick with it? Perhaps you need to give yourself some space!

If you ever find yourself in reaction mode... feeling like you are constantly putting out fires... don't put your nose to the grind stone and work harder. The best thing to do can be counterintuitive! Therese and Maruxa make a big announcement about the month of June and keep you in step with what they are up to creating!  

Even more common than relationships that are damaged by a fight, or something going terribly wrong... are the relationships that go stale after being put on autopilot. How many relationships in our life are not full of energy and aliveness? If you are settling for sub-par relationships... you will only ever experience sub-par happiness. Today Maruxa and Therese challenge you to dust off those hum-drum connections and create each and every relationship in your life intentionally!

Therese and Maruxa cover a few simple steps to bring relationships back into balance when they have gone awry. Have you ever felt stuck in a relationship where you feel like you are not getting what you want... maybe you are not even sure how things got this far off base... but you know you want something different? This episode of "I Want What You're Having" gives ou thye steps you need to dive back into that relationship to create more of what you DO want!

Relationships are the cornerstone of community, and one of the most powerful places to find joy and courage.  Taking the time to intentionally create what you want in relationships will pay you back exponentially in the happiness department ;-) This week Maruxa and Therese are joined by Susie Miller, Author of "Listen, Learn, Love." A powerful book that gives you actionable ways to intentionally create the relationships of your dreams! In today's episode Susie gives us three powerful ways to start creating better relationships today.

Stop trying to do everything perfectly... all at once! You were designed for wase and flow... so take stock of all that you want and then pick our ONE thing to focus on.  Give yourself permsission to make life easy and simplify by choosing one thing that ou are intentionally focusing on.  Do not fall into the trap of running aroung and working hard without getting the results you want!   Join Therese and Maruxa as they discuss the power of focusing on ONE thing.

Opening up and letting the world see who you truly are can be ont of the scariest experiences EVER! Putting up walls can keep you safe from getting hurt... but it also blocks you from feeling how much people truly love, adore and admire you... just for being you.   Let your true self shine and crack the shell to your true happiness!!!!

One simple shift in focus can make all the difference in how much effort it takes to be authentically happy! This week Therese and Maruxa get real about places where focusing on details rather than the largest picture may be tripping you up and robbing you of our happiness.

When she was down in the dumps, overweight, battling depression and on the verge of canceling her Keynote speech at NAMS... Nicole Dean thought back to a conversation she had with James Dearing... and used five simple words to bounce into action and be her best-self!

There are many ways we hold ourselves back from living life on the 'Edge of Possibility'... Join Therese and Maruxa as they talk about the trick to one of the biggest mistakes we all make that keeps us from living life to the fullest!

Do you ever feel stuck in a rut? Like things are just plodding along... and you crave the spark that being truly creative provides. This episode of "I Want What You're Having" provides a close look at what it truly means to be creative... the places to look for our hidden creativity... and how to get your creative juices flowing! All part of this month's look at coming alive again!

  This week Maruxa and Therese dig into a topic that you may think you have handled... but you are actually missing the mark. Self-care is not an item that you can put on your to-do list, go thought the motions, check it off and still get the benefits.  And it certainly does not have the impact it can if you feel you deserve it... "I 'should' be able to get my nails done because I worked hard this week."   Are you one of the many people running around, working hard and trying to prove that you are worthy? What would you do differently if you operated from a place of knowing that you already ARE worthy? ... How would self-care change for you then?       Join Therese and Maruxa as they talk about these concepts and unpack what works best for them and their clients... uncovering the true fountain of youth and energy.  

Fresh off of Beachpreneurs, Therese and Maruxa tackel a question from listner Yvette Sonneveld. Why would it be impartant for you to stop generalizing your comments into, "you, they, we" statements? What is the importance and impact of switching your language to OWN your experience?

What do you do when you decide to create a goal, make the goal, and get on track to reaching the goal? Well, for most of us (including the BOTH of us!), we get derailed and fall off course. Let's just be honest about it, right? :) It's in those moments that we have the choice to either get back on the horse or do one of the most debilitating things to ourselves...telling yourself that you are not worthy of the goal. Often, we choose to become a victim to circumstances or get caught into believing one of the many other powerful messages we choose to say to ourselves, that yes, indeed...we are failures. Unfortunately, most of us choose the destructive messages...We choose to stop looking at the goals we've set forth and course correct. We choose to stop going forward towards what we want. In today's episode, we tackle this exact issue head on, and we share with you how we too have needed to course correct and what we're doing about it. We hope that in this episode, you too can gain insights on what you can do i

Maruxa and Therese ring in the new year by tackling one of the biggest challenges that people face at the beginning of each year.  This is an unconventional look at the main reason most goals fail what to do and NOT do about it!They also have some fun announcements about two new segments that involve YOU!Join the podcast and jump in over at IWantWhatYoureHaving.com/question

Doing some last-minute shopping? Trying to figure out the perfect gift? Turn on Therese and Maruxa and give a quick listen to the final podcast of the year! Gift giving can be exhausting... but today on "I Want What You're Having" you will cover how to master the art of giving. What is the secret to giving gifts that serve both the giver and the receiver? Gifts that transcend material objects or include material objects… During the season when spending time with loved ones becomes a priority and you are scurrying from store to store trying to find that perfect something for someone special, what are the key components of giving a gift that leaves a lasting imprint?From our hearts to yours Merry Christmas, happy celebrating and may you be blessed in the coming year.

Therese and Maruxa as they tackle holiday traditions. Join them as they discuss two of the biggest binds that traditions and holidays create.First they discuss if your holiday traditions chain you down and feel like a burden or if you are choosing them and they have you come more alive. How do you let go of traditions that no longer serve what you want to create?get one simple exercise that will help you move from feeling like you're changed by your holiday traditions to choosing how you want to create them.One of the other challenges you may face going home for the holidays is having your family treat you as if you're the same person you were in the past. If you want to create new relationships and ways of being with your family this episode is a must!Take a short break from the bustle of the season to feed your soul and create more of what you want!

Maruxa and Therese take a peak into how you can create the holiday experience you want. Your focus and one simple intention can make all the difference in the world! :-)

After giving you a break from "I Wand What You're Having" through the month of November, Maruxa and Therese have missed you!... And each other. In this Episode, Therese and Maruxa talk about the highlights and challenges of this year and what that means for next year.  Insights, happenings and golden moments that you will not want to miss!