Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality From A Christian Perspective

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Answering questions about married sexuality and intimacy

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  • SWM 119 – Vibrators & dildos, roleplay, talking to your kids about sex, and more

    27/01/2024 Duração: 19min

    Topics include: How do you use a vibrator? Is roleplaying marriage a sin? Will a dildo make me unsatisfied with my husband? Wife makes excuses about everything When to start talking to your kids about sex? Wife caught me watching porn Is masturbation without porn a sin?

  • SWM 118 – In sickness and in health

    12/01/2024 Duração: 11min

    The traditional wedding vows go something like "I take you to be my wife/husband, and I do promise and covenant, before God and these witnesses, to be your loving and faithful husband/wife in plenty and in want, in joy and in sorrow, in sickness and in health, as long as we both shall live." Unfortunately, I don't remember my wedding vows. I remember picking some. I remember memorizing them. I remember reciting them, from memory, during the wedding, despite having the flu and a fever. But nearly 23 years later, I don't remember what they were. I'm sure they contained something like "in sickness and in health," though. This past month, we got to test those vows.

  • SWM 117 – Why do I want sex when I’m sick?

    15/12/2023

    Well, it’s winter here, which means cold and flu season.  So, of course, the last couple of weeks, it’s been rolling through our family of 7.  Christina and I were the last to get it, and it seemed I got it worse than her.  She complained about being sick but still working out multiple times daily (playing Supernatural on the VR - in case any others are fans).  For me, I was barely making it through my desk job and not making it some days. But at night, we’d crawl into bed, and I was still interested in sex, I think more than usual even - her, not at all.  That made me wonder - what is it about being sick that makes me want sex more? Unfortunately, my head was too fuzzy to research or write an article; here we are, a week later, and I’m ready to tackle it.  So, let’s dig into being sick and sex and why some may want sex when they’re sick, and even more so when they’re sick.

  • SWM 116 – Why do I always have to tell my husband how to help?

    30/11/2023 Duração: 12min

    Lately, I've noticed a trend on social media where famous creator couples make videos of the wife telling the husband that visitors are coming over and they need to prepare. In response, the husband goes and starts cleaning out the attic and crawlspace, going through keepsakes, and performing other tasks that do little to achieve the intended goal of getting ready for guests. Of course, they're doing it as a light-hearted joke, but it points to a common conflict in marriages - women often feel they have to ask for the same help repeatedly. Even in the non-hyperbole versions of these videos, the husband typically mows the lawn, cleans the driveway, and fixes issues in the front of the house, such as rewiring a light. In contrast, the wife worries about cleaning the house's interior and preparing food. Invariably, the wife gets upset that he's not helping with what she sees as important tasks. And in media, be it TV, movies, or social media, they all generally side with the wife. The joking videos mentioned ab

  • SWM 115 – October 2023 Anonymous Questions

    10/11/2023 Duração: 08min

    Topics include: Can I use a strap-on on my wife? My husband’s ex-girlfriend What’s a foreskin for?

  • SWM 114 – Understanding and Navigating Sexual Obligations in a Christian Marriage

    27/10/2023

    I had a wife ask, "Sex should be a gift given freely, and if I don’t have veto power, am I really giving freely?" This is my response in light of 1 Corinthians 7:4-5 and the role model Jesus was for us dying on the cross.

  • SWM 113 – September 2023 Anonymous Questions

    12/10/2023 Duração: 11min

    Topics Include: A husband's changing orgasms Can widowers masturbate Husband won't stop masturbation habit Calling husband "daddy" Feeling guilty about initiating sex

  • SWM 112 – Do men have it harder when it comes to sexual expectations?

    22/09/2023 Duração: 17min

    Answering the question: Hi Jay, I've noticed a dichotomy when it comes to expectations for male and female sex drives and what's considered desirable sexual performance. As a man, I feel like there's a lot of pressure to perform sexually. This means being able to become sexually aroused when seeing a naked woman (my wife in this case), being able to maintain the erection and having the sexual stamina to keep from climaxing for a sustained interval (not sure what the average woman considers desirable stamina but let's say 10 minutes?) Not to mention the societal pressure that men face when it comes to the size of their penis. I myself feel insecure about not having a large enough penis. Who doesn't want to add a couple of inches to their penis? I've become somewhat perplexed/frustrated because I feel like there are very few expectations placed on females. We live in an age when "all women are supposed to be seen as beautiful." It seems that females are simply expected to be willing to participate in sex when

  • SWM 111 – August 2023 Anonymous Questions

    08/09/2023 Duração: 11min

    Topics include: Sex in heaven Oral sex positions How to recover from an affair I want to become a mom

  • SWM 110 – July 2023 Anonymous Questions

    25/08/2023 Duração: 32min

    Topics include: My wife feels disrespected because I notice other women Wife is hurt but not healing after years Wife disconnects during foreplay What can we do during fertile days Oral sex questions Husband doesn't know our anniversary date Should I be worried if I'm late? In-laws over-share about sex Fantasies for couples Low-drive husband Period sex

  • SWM 109 – June 2023 Anonymous Questions

    11/08/2023 Duração: 10min

    Topics Include: Crossdressing Reframing "duty" sex Wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn't Afraid to have more children

  • SWM 108 – What does the Bible say about hell?

    05/08/2023 Duração: 42min

    One of the most confusing subjects in Christianity is the topic of hell. The popular view is that hell is a place of eternal torment where vengeful God sends you for all of eternity for not obeying Him. People use this belief to try and scare people into being Christians. Let's see what the Bible says about hell. Do people get tortured for eternity? Is it just an infinite existence of everlasting torment? Is God really that sadistic?

  • SWM 107 – May 2023 Anonymous Questions

    21/07/2023 Duração: 12min

    Topics include: Wife wants too much sex Couple needs counselling Keep having the same unproductive fight Make boundaries before you start dating Sexy underwear for men

  • SWM 106 – April 2023 Anonymous Questions

    15/07/2023 Duração: 23min

    Topics: Is it okay to take nude pictures and videos of each other? Limon by Minna discount Asexual wife? Wife loves me, but isn’t in love with me Wife isn’t interested in improving our sex life Wish I married a bigger butt Secretly feed her ejaculate Husband says my vagina stinks and tastes bad 50-year-old wife refuses to have sex Do we need a counselor?

  • SWM 105 – March 2023 Anonymous Question

    06/07/2023 Duração: 14min

    March 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Threesome tempationsAversion to receiving manual and oral sexPenis sizeFalling asleep during sexy timeHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Melt - Couples Massage Course (course)Intimacy Ignited (book)Spice Jar game (printable)Our Sexploration List (printable)Your definition of gross changes when you're aroused (post)How does breast or penis size affect sex? (post)Lately our Art of Edging ebook has been very popular as it's new. If you want to learn how to extend your sex sessions, along with connection and pleasure, check it out.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful champions!If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Las

  • SWM 104 – February 2023 Anonymous Questions

    02/06/2023 Duração: 18min

    February 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Women use sex to control men, so men should be allowed to masturbateAppreciating beauty vs lustingPlaylist for sexTenutoSqueamish about handjobsAnother question about masturbationHow do I get my wife to masturbate for me?Is oral sex okay?Are men polygamous by nature?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:The Art of Edging: Enhancing Connection and Pleasure in your Marriage Bed (ebook)Book a coaching callSoL sensual massage (Spotify playlist)Romantic date night (Spotify playlist)Christian romantic date night (Spotify playlist)Best '90s Alternative Playlist Ever (Spotify playlist)00s Rock Anthems (Spotify playlist)Tenuto by Mysteryvibe (toy)Tor 2 from Lelo (toy)Question about handjobs with condoms (post)Why masturbation is a problem whether you're married or single (post)When did God stop allowing multiple wives? (post)Lately our Art

  • SWM 103 – January 2023 Anonymous Questions

    10/05/2023 Duração: 15min

    January 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Phone sexOral sex to completionForgiveness and trust after betrayalAre pictures and videos a problem?Increasing female libido naturallyWhat is our duty?Toxic wifeAbusive employerHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Our Sexploration List (printable)Oral sex survey results (post)Do Christians make sex tapes - survey results (post)Why masturbation is a problem, whether you're married or single (post)Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course)Where did my sex drive go? (ebook)Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5.Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private

  • SWM 102 – December 2022 Anonymous Questions

    09/04/2023 Duração: 22min

    December 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:Does my wife know what I'm doing to her?I want to share orgasms with my husbandWhat are your thoughts on BDSM?Is bondage a problem for me?Wife doesn't like direct clitoral stimulationHow do I hold my wife accountable?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Your definition of gross changes when you're aroused (post)Episode 95 - Question 1 - Coming clean about faking orgasms (post/podcast)Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course)Making it easier to orgasm - guide for Christian wives (ebook)Introduction to Talking Dirty (ebook)Our Sexploration List (printable)My wife wants me to tie her up!? (post)Honour bondage (post)Beginner bondage questions (post)Bondage resources - Question 6 (post/podcast)Are dominance/submission games okay in the bedroom? (post)Why does my spouse always push for more during sex? (post/podcast)She Comes First - Book

  • SWM 101 – Why does my spouse always push for more during sex?

    04/04/2023 Duração: 08min

    SWM 101 - Why does my spouse always push for more during sex? Check out the show notes here for more details and links.Today I'm answer this question I received in my inbox: Jay, I enjoyed the book (Introduction to Talking Dirty) that my hubby put on my iPad. The thing is, no matter what I do in my comfort zone, it isn't enough. I do many, I mean many, of the examples you use, even the F WORD. How do I get him to be grateful for what I do instead of needing more? I always feel inadequate.Anyways thanks for helping many couples enjoy their intimacy more!Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Thank you to all our faithful supporters!If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marr

  • SWM 100 – My daughter’s speech – The crisis of my generation – transgenderism

    12/03/2023 Duração: 08min

    This is episode 100, and I wanted to do something a little different for our one-hundredth episode, and I was struggling to figure out what that should be.  Then an opportunity presented itself.  You see, my children are in 4H, and if you don’t know what 4H is, many people describe it as “scouts for farm kids.”   That’s not quite accurate, as we have some kids from the city in our club as well, but a lot of the projects tend to involve farm animals of some sort, and so farm kids naturally gravitate towards those.  But we also do things like archery.  In general, you can choose what you want to be involved in. However, there is one project that all 4H members must complete each year - writing and delivering a speech. You have to deliver your speech in front of your club - about 40 kids and their parents, and often grandparents.  If you place 1st or second in your age category, you go on to deliver your speech at the district level and do it again in front of twice as m

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