X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships

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I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating coaches you know and love over at X & Y Communications. Join us for the most heartfelt and action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating and relationship tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. If you like the podcasts you'll love our newsletter. You can also find us on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at scotandemily@scotandemily.com or via voicemail at +1 (210) 362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate your ratings and reviews. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show for the past ten years!

Episódios

  • Episode 76--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relationships With Someone Younger

    19/01/2024

    Finally, here's the full episode on a topic that everyone wonders about. It's no secret that men often want to date younger women. But what is it about those guys who are actually successful at doing so? And is it really true that many amazing young women actually prefer older men? First off, what actually counts as an 'older man' to a younger woman? Does the 'half your age plus seven' rule make any sense? What if our mental images and/or stereotypes about what an older man and younger woman look like as a couple are challenged? Above and beyond all of that, what are some legit factors to consider when there's an age gap? I mean, is age really 'just a number'? What's up with dating sites only for people over fifty...is that what the market is really looking for? And speaking of online dating, how about those sites that specialize in 'sugar daddy' arrangements? Is there something to be said for being an 'old soul', looking for someone who's a better fit at an older age? Or is it that younger women like older m

  • Episode 75--X & Y On The Fly--First Date Weirdness? You Are NOT Alone

    10/11/2023

    If you've been out there dating for any time at all, you've likely compiled your fair share of weird dating stories. It's easy to think that those situations could only happen to you, and you've GOT to be the only one. But guess what? PLENTY of apparent weirdness on first dates is tons more common than you probably guess. This time around Emily and I recount not only a few of our own most bizzaro stories, but those of others we've heard from over the years. You can likely guess we started off with tales of gross misrepresentation and false advertising online. That topic is closely followed by talk about those awkward instances when only one of you thinks the date went well. Backlash when it didn't go well? We've got you covered. What about when they won't go away quietly? And don't forget those completely inappropriate demonstrations of or impatience about sexuality up front...or the opposite, taking FOREVER to make a move. What if your date (or you) are too flirty with everyone else? What if they become drun

  • Episode 74--X & Y On The Fly--Creepy People

    01/09/2023

    We've all found ourselves out on a date with someone who creeped us out. And no...it's not gender-specific. But what does 'creepy' even mean? Why is it often so hard to define? Well, in this episode we break down exactly what constitutes such infamous creepy behavior...and how it tends to impact men and women differently. Is it possible some people don't even realize they're being creepy? Do others know for sure they are in fact creeps, but like it that way? What's more, why is it perfectly normal guys are often so concerned they're going to come across as creepy? How do we relax and avoid that worry...lest it weirdly become a self-fulfilling prophecy? What is the difference between male creepy behavior and the female version? How many women out there have somehow convinced themselves it's impossible for them to be creepy? Stay tuned for the one shining example of how the absolute best of intentions can actually backfire spectacularly and seem insanely creepy. What are the warning signs that the person you're

  • Episode 73--X & Y On The Fly--What Is Normal?

    28/04/2023

    Every couple thinks and behaves differently. You've probably thought and behaved differently depending on who your significant other was at a particular time in history. But for sure there are, well...'standards' that tend to rule any polite, public conversation about how men and women typically are when they're a couple, and what's 'normal'. So then, what IS 'normal'? Is there really such a thing? And if so, is that really what's BEST in a particular relationship...especially for YOU and your partner? After all, sometimes 'normalcy' is unhappy. What kind of feelings should a couple have for each other? Can initial attraction and 'chemistry' possibly be a bad or dangerous thing, as some so-called experts say? On the other hand, is there any merit to the idea of 'learning to love each other'? And how do 'normal' couples behave? Is it healthy to 'fight', as some dating coaches have suggested? Or should you always be 'shiny and happy' instead? Surely, there has to be some middle ground, right? And what about jea

  • Episode 72--X & Y On The Fly--All About Power Couples

    14/04/2023

    You hear the term 'power couple' quite a bit, but what exactly does it mean? We know one when we see one, for sure. But is it necessarily a good thing? Would we want to team up with our significant other to BE one? If so, how do we BECOME one? Well, let's first get this out in the open: I'm not sure whether we are indeed a 'power couple' or not, especialy after this conversation...as entertaining and informative as it was. So then, how about it? What kind of 'power' are we talking about here, anyway? What does it take for a couple to add up to more than the sum of their individual parts? What are the actual, real-world traits of a 'power couple'? Can a couple be a 'power couple' simply by acting like one, or does that distinction have to be earned...if not bestowed upon them by others? What are the different ways can a couple indeed be powerful? Doesn't the expectation to be a 'power couple' put a lot of pressure on spouses, especially if one wants it more than the other? Is this something we should aspire to

  • Episode 71--X & Y On The Fly--What Dating Is Like For Attractive Women

    03/02/2023

    It seems to everyone paying attention that beautiful women enjoy a massive 'halo effect'. It's like they're treated like celebrities--or even royalty--everywhere they go. But what else is going on there? What's it REALLY like to be a sexy, attractive woman out there in the dating world? Well, in my decidedly un-biased opinion, Emily is exactly the right female human being to offer first-hand perspective on all of this. First, off, we talk about how there are two kinds of women...those who rely on their looks, and those who see the bigger picture. What's life like for each? Do women look for reasons to 'reject' men? And what's it like to have to put almost everyone in the JBF Zone? What do truly attractive women really think when a man compliments them? Could it really be true that the hotter a woman is, the LESS she gets asked out (even if she's 'hit on' more)? Do women really enjoy their ability to 'get laid' by almost anyone, anytime...or is that only how men think? What is the BIGGEST problem beautiful wom

  • Episode 70--X & Y On The Fly--Weed Out The Wrong Ones

    30/09/2022

    Who knows why this topic hadn't been covered yet around here? My edumckayted guess is it probably had something to do with repressed memories. Yes, Emily and I both are survivors of first marriages affected by profound illness. And yes...we both strongly agree you would be better off avoiding psychotic people in general, especially as romantic partners. But when you get right down to it, that's only one kind of person who you should definitely write out of your romantic story. So why is it, then, that too many people end up with the wrong person? Is it that they ignore red flags? Is it failure to even recognize red flags at all? Or does low self-esteem compel people to settle, which is at least better than being lonely? Is it about being 'clouded by beauty vision'? For sure, some people are manipulated or even threatened by black-hearted partners into sticking around. Or what if it's something else entirely? Well, here at X & Y Communications we believe in deserving what you want. That means rolling up the sl

  • Episode 69--X & Y On The Fly--Blended Families

    02/09/2022

    Let's face it, when single moms and single dads get together, it's pure naive idealism that would cause us to expect we're creating our own Brady Bunch. The reality of blended families is much different. Emily and I have been there ourselves, and have first-hand experience. We know full well it can seem more like being put through a Vita-Mix than a mere blender. But does it have to be such an ordeal? Well, there's no doubt that bringing everyone involved under one roof is a challenge, but yes...there is plenty of 20/20 foresight that can minimize both the drama and the pain. And what if you're already all together and facing profound issues as a blended family? No worries, Emily and I have real, actionable answers for you as well. So, why is blending a family uniquely different when it comes to baseline compatibility measures? What should we think about BEFORE dating a single parent? How does selfishness creep in to the picture...often with devastating results? What if you straight-up don't like each other's

  • Episode 68--X & Y On The Fly--Words That Cannot Be Unsaid

    17/06/2022

    As the lyrics of one of Tyler Childers' songs say, 'There is hurt you can cause that time alone cannot heal'. When it comes to our interactions with women, a breathtaking amount of that pain is... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 67--X & Y On The Fly--Who is Jen, And Why Is She Texting You?

    01/04/2022

    No matter how well a couple gets along and navigates their relationship, there's always seems to be a challenge to your relationship coming from somewhere. It can start with the best man's TMI speech... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 66--X & Y On The Fly--The Little Things That Make A Relationship Suck

    31/12/2021

    In the second installment of our two-part episode, Emily and I break down the little things couples do (often to each other) that make a relationship suck. To kick things off, we talk about the scene... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 65--X & Y On The Fly--The Little Things That Make A Relationship Great

    24/12/2021

    This is the first of a two-part episode on the little things that either make a relationship great, or make it suck. Sure, you hear about the major pillars like trust, communication, attraction,... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 64--X & Y On The Fly--Trust Is The Cornerstone Of Every Relationship

    08/10/2021

    It's the foundation of every good solid relationship. With it, you and your significant other are set for years of blissful happiness together. Without it, you're likely doomed to failure. We're... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 63--X & Y On The Fly--Neediness, Desperation And Trying Too Hard

    09/07/2021

    Who knew a funny video featuring two cockatoos would lead to a full-on discussion of one of the most devastating--and common--ways we do mess up our chances in dating and relationships? I'm talking,... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 62--X & Y On The Fly--Stand By Your Man...Or Your Woman

    23/04/2021

    In 1968, Tammy Wynette released probably her most famous single, which caused immediate outrage from the Women's Movement. But Wynette countered by saying 'stand by your man' simply meant accepting... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 61--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relationships In 2021

    01/01/2021

    2020 has finally drawn to a close and it's time to address 2021. What will the 'new normal' look like insofar as dating and relationships go? How soon until we can actually get there? What unexpected... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 60--X & Y On The Fly--Happy Relationship Or Miserable One?

    25/12/2020

    Last week on The Mountain Top podcast I said out loud that I had never met anyone in a happy relationship who was miserable. That concept is worth a deeper discussion, and who better to have it with... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 59--X & Y On The Fly--His Masculine Side, Her Feminine Side

    02/10/2020

    Everyone has heard about how men have a feminine side and women a masculine one. How true is that? And if it's the case, how does the concept typically manifest itself? Is it a good thing, or is it... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 58--X & Y On The Fly--Sexy Moms, Sexy Dads

    10/07/2020

    Parenthood is hot, and we can prove it! Curiously enough, however, the first direction we went in was debating the 'dad bod' and 'mom bod' factor. Do men really desire that rail-thin supermodel body,... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

  • Episode 57--X & Y On The Fly--Dealing With Disruption

    27/03/2020

    This episode may come off as a bit weird up front, as it's the first show we've ever published to BOTH The Mountain Top and X & Y On The Fly feeds. But hey...we figured this is a timely conversation... Visit us on the Web at www.scotandemily.com/podcast and get a free special report on acing fist dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.

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